Mummy's Obsession

Brain cascading:

Kita park gambar dulu..nanti balik KL, I'll do the proper write up k..heee~ berhabuks sudah cik bloggy ni.. ngeee... sorry!! seems si kenit non stop demanding her rights. hahahahah~

Hey hey. I'm back after sekian lama. Lama ke?? Well then, it seems writing an entry will take a longer time than before. Ada tuntutan diraja dari si royal highness princess Audrey Hepburn ni, eh silap Audrey Marissa. This little fragile manusia kecil needs most of my attention than the other things. New things to be learn every single day. Macam non stop adjusting, adapting dari benda sekecil2nya hingga sebesar2 halnya. Mujurlah I still on maternity leave and dah extended another a week extra pun. So kalau mati kutu skali pun, I still have Bonda to help me out.:D

I do not if this symptom happens to all mummies out there : we tends to forget our own needs but it become bigger needs for little one. And even we see her/him face all the time, we still miss her/him a lot! Obsess with your own child perhaps...;P

A part of that, being an online buyer yang agak tegar, nowadays no more buying things for myself (exceptional for books please..heee~) BUT it has changed to buying things for junior me. Menjadikan dia seorang 'girl', lagi terlalu banyak benda yang cute, comel become a true needs for her. Alasan je kan...ngee~ Dari rompers to headbands to educational toys to tutu dress, playgym, bottles...you named it, most of can be bought by a click on your fingertips. Easy peasy!! ;D Sampai satu tahap kena hold myself up, laptop letak jauh2...no more purchasing, sat gi bajet lari, nages sorang2. ahahaha~ Knowing me yang obsessive towards cutie mutsy thingy ni - therefore takmo tayang sangat those cute stuff to me pleassseeee... (as if it will work out @_@)

As above, these only a part of her things, it will be more to come. ;P Janji tak paw duit sesapa kannnn..hihih~

Day Out After 44

Brain stimulating:

Done 44 days #berpantang. Another 56 days to complete the 100 punya quota. Pheww...
Eh sambung later..need to get some sleep before I  bertukar jadi Batman...;)

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Right let's sambung kisah kita :D...

For young or new mummy slalu tanya, apa beza berpantang for 44 days, 100 days, 6 months and a year?? Perlu ke? Wajib ke? Kalau ikut tradisi, perkara- perkara ni wajib sebab untuk kesihatan diri sendiri juga sebab ketika kelahiran ia ibarat 20 tulang dipatahkan serentak plus hilang hampir setengah liter darah. And di kala meneran, tubuh badan seorang Ibu itu mampu menahan kesakitan yang kita sendiri can't imagine that we could. Ajaib kan? Itulah kuasa Tuhan and the miracle of human body.

So far pantang 44 hari tu, I managed to do that, adalah keluar kejap-kejap sebab nak klinik for first injection baby. The rest of the days, duduk melepet kat rumah with little baby. adapting new motherhood environment. Mana nak belajar susukan baby, mandikan baby, learn her sleeping pattern, tingkah laku untuk tau dia lapar ke, nak main ke, mengantuk ke, sakit ke....still in process of learning. It was like 24 hours with her. Adalah jugak time-time dia with tokwan and nekwan dia, so I can have a lil bit of rest.

After 44 days je, Atoknya dah bawak berjalan pegi mall, pegi breakfast, pegi jumpa Moyangnya..bak kata lain nye memang berjalan saja. Dah jadi new hobby of her. Yeayy jalan-jalan!! ;P

Pantang 100 hari, hermm ni mencabar jugak ni. But then, it can be done. Surely si suami pun akan faham, nak isteri sihat betul-betul balik kan kan kan? So kena lah sabar ye sayang. Pantang beraircond tu macam susah sikit as I am a working mum, so office memang spesis-spesis sejuk beku but ins sha Allah at that time badan pun dah kuat. Cuti 2 bulan kan plus I dah extended the leave for a week, dah 70 hari pun ;) Takde masalah pun kan.

For me from what I can see, issue berpantang ni depends pada certain people jugak. Different races and religions has different way. Me? Berkat di'sekolah'kan kakak-kakak di ofis, my jiran, my mum, Alhamdullilah I managed to get through it. Kebaikannya?? You will feel it within your own body.

Fikir-fikir kan la. You know the best for your body kan. Yang penting, life support keliling you pun penting to make it through. ;)

My own version of anak burung ;)

Dreamland of Little Audrey #mylilprincess #1month

Heart intoxicated with beauty:

A new baby is like the beginning of all things – wonder, hope, a dream of possibilities. The greatest blessing, gift from ABOVE. A little angel to cherish and to love.

These overload cuteness and beautiful pictures been photographed by KakZara Haleena of Camora Arts on the day our lil princess, Audrey turned 1 month old. It has always be my wish to have such memorable pictures to be captured as another part of memory lane in addition of our new phase of life. Thank you so much En.Hubby Hasif Rahman for making this real. I am such a happy mommy ;D

When I see these pictures again and again, I realized how fast she has grown up, the moment of her being super tiny as big our two palm to such a bambam baby right now.

Thank you Kak Zara for this awesome pictures. Being such a sporting and bubbly sister, the session has never been bored and full of laughter. And lil Audrey pun sangatlah compromised with Kak Zara and team with all sorts of costumes and cute props, which at times, she was smiling. How adorable she is. Ibu tak sangka awak pun ‘photogediks’ jugak ye sayang. tongue emoticon I even tanya soalan ntah pape : ada amik kursus how to calm a baby ke?? Owh my…practice make perfects don’t we Kak Zara? Hee~ Double thumbs up for your work Kak Zara!! Sayang lebih la…;D

And these: I present to you..

Si Boolat Audrey #cukurrambut #1month

Heart melting:

Makin hari, makin macam-macam perangai si kenit ni or I selalu bahasakan our lil princess as lilkhalifah dalam my previous2 entries. Apa pun panggilan she is my lil Audrey Marissa. ;D She has growing up rapidly fast. Makin hari makin bulat, makin berisi, makin berat!. Hihi~ Itulah the power of 'titisan emas'. Sedar tak sedar she has been a month old. Me pun dah nak habes pantang dah by this week. Itu pantang wajib tapi kalau pantang seterusnya ada lagi 60 days to go. Hee..takpe yang penting yang wajib lepas sudah..Pheww!

And yesterday, ultimate nampak she is getting bigger and tembam like my nephew Aisy masa dia kecik-kecik dulu bila dah dibotak licinkan. Tokwan & Nekwan dah cukurkan rambut si kecik ni upon my request petang semalam. The rambut yang dicukurkan even dah packed dalam plastik untuk simpanan masa depan. Eh..haha..tak tak. ;P
Yes ikut sunnah, it's better to be done masa hari ke-tujuh together with akikah dan ditahnikkan. Tapi ni semua ikut kemampuan masing-masing. Buat satu-satu pun boleh bila ada rezeki lebih yang membenarkan. Nama pun sunat and it is sunnah done by our prophet Muhammad S.A.W. to his grandchildrens. Mengikut yang sunnah tu kan digalakkan.

Sunnah Nabi Muhammad S.A.W apabila dikurniakan cahaya mata :

Hari pertama (saat bayi selamat dilahirkan)
1. Diazankan dan diqamatkan

Hari ketujuh
1. Melakukan Aqiqah (seekor kambing dikorbankan untuk bayi perempuan & 2 ekor kambing untuk bayi lelaki untuk disedekahkan pada fakir miskin)
2. Ditahnikkan (memasukkan sesuatu yang manis seperti manisan madu lebah atau buah tamar yang dihancurkan dan memalitkan ke lelangit bayi)
3. Dicukurkan dan diberi nama

Artikel Penuh: http://ww1.utusan.com.my/utusan/info.asp?y=2006&dt=0911&sec=Bicara_Agama&pg=ba_02.htm#ixzz3hr4UUPJj 
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Photographer by Ayahnya, Hasif Rahman. Masa nih masih berambut lagi ;)

Lagipun dalam Islam memang menggalakkan amalan mencukur rambut bayi sehingga botak supaya segala kekotoran yang keluar daripada rahim dapat dibuang dan membolehkan rambut baru tumbuh dengan sihat. Ye lah dalam perut kita macam-macam ada and masa dia dalam cocoon tu dah diperam by 9 months so it will be much better if we bersihkan from baby as good as we can. Ins sha Allah rambut tu cepat je tumbuh balik.

Later on nak kena pergi kedai emas untuk ditimbang rambut yang dicukur dengan harga emas yang terkini. Untuk apa? Ha ni ha...

"Sunat disedekahkan emas atau perak hasil daripada timbangan berat rambut yang dicukur itu kepada fakir miskin jika berkemampuan. Jika tidak mampu, maka tidaklah diberatkan ke atas ibu bapa anak tersebut melainkan sekadar yang terupaya, umpamanya digantikan dengan nilaian wang atau sebagainya mengikut kemampuan. "

Let say, kalau korang tak berkemampuan nak bayar ikut harga emas, boleh jugak dinilaikan dengan harga perak. Depends pada kemampuan masing-masing. Ins sha Allah lepas ni pulak nak buat majlis Aqiqah untuk Audrey maybe in October sekali dengan our anniversary yang pertama. Hee~

Tada!! inilah si botak Audrey. Hari ni Nekwan dia bawak bersiar-siar melihat bunga-bunga yang berkembang mekar di astakonah kesayangan bonda (bersiar-siar sangat, padahal kat porch rumah je..hihihi). Anak dara should be feminin sikit even kalau ikut Ibu dia ni memang akan rock sikit ;P - kena kasar sikit nanti orang buli. huhuhu~

Mesti peningkan bila nak ikut sunnah-sunnah tu. Masa my time pun even now, tak ikut susunan pun. Ikut dan. Sebab tak ada pengetahuan. But now dah tau, ins sha Allah boleh dipratikkan untuk anak-anak yang seterusnya. Oppss..;P

p/s: Okey lepas ni, nak bawak Audrey keluar kena pakai kan headband girly2 sikit, karang orang cop baby boy ke apa..haha~ You are sooo comel la Audrey!!